The Intern made me do it...
A few years back, a former intern contacted me and asked to grab a coffee. Without hesitation, I invited them to a local coffee spot where we could meet. It had been years since we had seen or even spoken to each other.
To give you a bit of background, CargoTrans had an internship program engaging two to three local and international students per year. They taught us a lot, and many are still in the industry today.
THE BEST COFFEE EVER.
It was one of those beautiful spring NYC mornings where the sun was shining, and the birds were chirping– everything seemed alright in the world. I headed to my corner coffee spot, where the former intern was waiting. We hugged – I grabbed some coffee – and we started to catch up. They were happy to see me, but I got the sense they were a bit shy. We begin sharing some life updates and reminiscing about former and current colleagues. Sharing updates about our families and work.
”Within a few minutes, with a smile on their face, they say, “Anthony, you changed my life.”
I immediately thank them for their kind words but assure them that their hard work, courage to move abroad, and good instincts are how they achieved their success. Yes, we provided an opportunity, but they made it happen.
They stopped me – “No. You changed my life.”
I’m confused on the inside thinking – ok, maybe they really enjoyed their position, and we taught them more than I realize. They elaborate.
“Seeing you – a gay man – in the workplace changed my life. I, too, am gay.”
I was without words – which, if you know me – rarely happens. I think I successfully held back tears. I think. They were tears of joy but also disappointment. A missed opportunity to support them during their internship in a more meaningful way. At that moment, I felt so much responsibility. These are the moments I’ve often heard teachers and leaders of larger organizations talk about. It’s all about making a difference in someone’s life – no matter how small. I never thought I could make such an impact in our humble organization.
From this day forward, something changed...
To be transparent, I often struggle with being out in the logistics industry. Even within my organization, it took time for me to talk openly about my life outside of the office. To this day, I admit there are times when I’m abroad or in settings where I don’t feel 100% safe and choose to avoid certain topics or questions. As I write this, I know that there may be people reading this with whom I haven’t been open – mostly because I’m unsure of how it would be received. The logistics industry evolved over the last decade however, there is still more progress to be made towards equity and inclusion – it is in many ways diverse due to the global nature of the business.
Intern – you changed my life too.
Thank you for waking me up to the opportunity and duty I have as someone in a position of power and visibility to scream from the warehouse tops that “WE TOO” can work and lead in this industry. I look forward to creating more awareness and visibility in the industry.
THIS ONE IS FOR THE INTERNS, AND ALL OF US
And so, as of March 8, 2024, CargoTrans has become an LGBTBE-certified business by the NGLCC. As a family business, we wanted to display our pride and create a safe space for other LGBTE and minorities in logistics. We look forward to growing our diverse client, supplier and employee network. Our goal with this certification is to continue inspiring and supporting the interns and people who aren’t sure they can. To that Intern – you changed my life, and I’m forever grateful.
The National LGBT Chamber of Commerce
The largest advocacy organization dedicated to expanding economic opportunities and advancements for LGBTQ people, and the exclusive certifying body for LGBTQ-owned businesses.
